Reflection

Posted by admin on Tuesday Aug 31, 2010 Under Uncategorized

reflectionI strongly believe in the power of reflection. I am talking about taking some intentionally scheduled time on a regular basis (daily or weekly) to think about your life, where you are now and what direction you would like your life to go in.

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Emotional Intelligence (EI)

Posted by admin on Wednesday Aug 25, 2010 Under Uncategorized

emotionalintelligenceEmotional Intelligence (EI)According to Wikipedia, Emotional Intelligence (EI) describes the ability, capacity, skill or, in the case of the trait EI model, a self-perceived ability, to identify, assess, and manage the emotions of one’s self, of others, and of groups.

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Hitting Home

Posted by admin on Monday Aug 16, 2010 Under Uncategorized

darylI am in my mid-40’s and more and more I am hearing from friends and family about illness and death among people in my age group. Am I getting to “that” age where it is “normal” for some of my peers to get sick and in some cases die? During the past few months I have lost several friends and several others are suffering through illness. All of this doesn’t take into account all of those suffering financially through this rough economic period. I find myself much more contemplative and reflective lately…

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When it Feels Right

Posted by admin on Monday Aug 9, 2010 Under Uncategorized

trustgutIn my almost 45 years of life experience, when something feels right in my gut, it usually is right. I have spent the past 20 years leading, managing and caring for people in business. I have learned through the years to listen to my gut and to do what it tells me to do. Occasionally I have been wrong and my gut has led me astray. However, the great majority of the time it has led me to a positive relationship or a right decision. Some of those opportunities and decisions and shaped and improved my life far beyond my expectation.In my almost 45 years of life experience, when something feels right in my gut, it usually is right. I have spent the past 20 years leading, managing and caring for people in business. I have learned through the years to listen to my gut and to do what it tells me to do. Occasionally I have been wrong and my gut has led me astray. However, the great majority of the time it has led me to a positive relationship or a right decision. Some of those opportunities and decisions and shaped and improved my life far beyond my expectation.

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Brotherly Love

Posted by admin on Wednesday Aug 4, 2010 Under Uncategorized

djrnyc1I am blessed to have 2 brother’s that I have been very close with our entire lives. They are identical twins three years younger than me (they are 41). My brother Jason lives in Park Slope (Brooklyn) in New York and with families and careers is has been challenging to spend a lot of time together during the past 15+ years. Jason’s wife & 2 kids are out of the country for a few weeks visiting friends and relatives. Jason invited my brother Randy and I to come to NYC for a long weekend. That “brothers weekend” happened this past weekend. To say the least, it was magical. The last time the three of us were together for a “brothers weekend” was in 1994. This reunion was way overdue.

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Testing our Comfort Zone

Posted by admin on Wednesday Jul 28, 2010 Under Uncategorized

testsWhen was the last time you took a written test that applied to your vocation and your ability to earn a living? I am 44 years old and I haven’t taken a written test with any real meaning in many, many years. I owned a mortgage banking company for almost 20 years and we were licensed by the Department of Real Estate (DRE). The DRE required a license to conduct activites as a loan originator in the mortgage business. All of us who worked at our mortgage company had a DRE license. I earned my DRE license in 1990 and I haven’t taken a meaningful test since.

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Attention Deficit Disorder

Posted by admin on Wednesday Jul 21, 2010 Under Uncategorized
  • addI have ADD. I was diagnosed with ADD in elementary school by my pediatrician after my behavior at home and at school got so bad my teachers and my parents couldn’t take anymore. It was the early 1970’s and the science and the data from years of studies regarding ADD wasn’t what it is today. There were a lot of questions and very few answers.


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    My Mother-In-Law

    Posted by admin on Thursday Jul 15, 2010 Under Uncategorized

    reneanddarylI have been blessed to know my mother in law, Rene Piemonte, for 28 years. Rene and I met in July 1982 when I met my wife Ondrea. I was 16 years old. Rene and I met in a nail salon where my mother worked. Rene took Ondrea to the salon where Rene was getting her nails done. My mom met and spoke to Ondrea and called me to the salon to meet Ondrea. The rest is history.

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    Taking Risks

    Posted by admin on Wednesday Jul 7, 2010 Under Uncategorized

    riskWhat is your risk tolerance? For some taking risks is very uncomfortable and avoided whenever possible. For others, risk is a necessary part of everyday life. I fall into the ladder category. Risk taking is part of my make-up. In my experience some of the risks have led to failure and some to success. The failures an successes are valuable opportunities to learn lessons and grow. Hopefully the lessons lead to creating successes again and again and help us to be aware and avoid the risks that led to failure.

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    Summer Vacation

    Posted by admin on Monday Jun 28, 2010 Under Uncategorized

    SummerSunThe last weekend May usually starts my thoughts about what I want to do over the summer months. I watch the Indianapolis 500 on Memorial Day weekend and then all thoughts turn to being outside. Injoy the Sunday’s my family and I spend in our yard and swimming in the pool. I believe we are creating some memories that will last forever.

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